Tuesday, February 24, 2009

My favorite super hero



When I was a kid I used to collect comic books. But never the super hero kind. I uh...liked Richie Rich, Casper the Ghost, and Archie comics. Give me a break...I am a girl and I was less than ten years old.

But now that I am decades older, I kinda like the idea of super heroes. Especially in the movies. They are making the characters less cartoonish and more...human. The newest Batman movies have an innate darkness to them which I really like. The lead role was given to someone who is a bit dark himself. Spiderman is goofily vulnerable. They have not come out with a superman or Hulk that I approve of yet. But Iron Man! Ooooh Iron Man!

Maybe it is because I have a crush on Robert Downey Jr. (Have always loved him. Remember him as Charlie Chaplin or in Ally McBeal?) but the character of Tony Stark is made for him. I love the dichotomy of arrogance and humility. What I especially like about this character is that Iron Man is so human. He doesn't possess super human powers, he is smart enough to create them from scratch. How cool is that?

And the best part about Iron Man is that unlike other super heroes, he fully admits that he is Iron Man. What confidence! He is also able to admit when he is wrong, turn around and do what is right and kick some ass in the process. What is there not to love?

I am so looking forward to the sequel.

So who is your favorite super hero? What qualities do you like in your super heroes?
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On another note...

If you haven't ever checked out Health Central please do stop by. I feel like the Wizard of Oz or something. Who is that person behind the curtain? I have been diligently working behind the scenes for some time and I have recently accepted the position of being the Community Leader for both the Depression and Multiple Sclerosis sites on Health Central as well as continuing to be a contributor for these sites.

I have never liked the title of "expert" and I am very happy to see this designation go and hopefully soon. I am not an expert and will never claim to be one. I am merely a writer who suffers from depression and has Multiple Sclerosis. I have always been involved with on-line support groups and sites and it feels really good to be a part of this. I would not have been able to survive all that I have survived thus far without the help of others.

So if you are in need of support or need some information or just want to hang out with some new really cool people...come on by to check out these on-line communities. As I was saying in an earlier post, there are a lot of folk on these sites who could benefit from your knowledge, stories, and experiences. You can write share posts, answer questions, or simply lend your support to people who are in need.

My last posts for the sites are still going strong...if you still want to join the discussion it is not too late. We were discussing emotionally abusive relationships and also whether or not there is such a thing as an MS personality.

If you have never read Doctor Deb's blog, I would encourage you to do so. Can't say enough good things about Doctor Deborah Serani. She is a writer, mental health therapist, and blogger extraordinare. It was my honor to be granted a written interview with her for MS Health Central. Doctor Deb talks in detail about how to emotionally cope with having a chronic illness such as Multiple Sclerosis. You can read her insightful interview right here.

Also I am hoping to continue the discussion about emotionally abusive relationships in how to leave such a situation. I am hoping with this series of posts to be able to give hope to those who find themselves in such a relationship and don't know what to do. There are so many young girls out there who will end up being in an abusive situation (such as myself years ago) and I am hoping these honest discussions will prevent this from happening.

You can read my latest post on this topic right here.

T-t-t-that's all folks! See you next Tuesday if not before.

28 comments:

Art said...

I always liked Iron Man from the comic book days. But for similar reasons my favorite has always been Batman. Batman has no innate superpowers - he uses technology, physical training and ingenuity to perform his extraordinary feats. I like that.

C. E. Chaffin said...

Exactly why I always preferred Batman--all the knowledge, self-discipline, gadgetry--it always looked possible. And I love the batarang!

As for you, Meryleme, your contributions to Health Central are admirable. Keep up the good work!

CE

Mark Krusen said...

Thanks for stopping by and commenting on my blog. I see you know Stephany too. She's and awesome caring person.The fact you have her on your blogroll tells me you think the same.

As to super hero's. I can't think of any that I identified with. I'm more into real life hero's.

As I read through some of your post I'm struck by your ability to reach out to others even though your going thru some really,really tough times yourself.

David Cranmer said...

Hard to believe but I haven't seen Iron Man yet. My favorite hero, currently, is Hellboy and I'm kinda pooped out on Batman, X-Men etc.

Paul is a Hermit said...

I have to start watching movies. Iron Man? We have a superhero named that? New Batman movies? I gotta get off this computer but then I'd miss your articles, can't have that. :)

You are truly going to help someone going through abuse right now with that two part series. There is no question. The responses from the first part were heart breaking. From bad, something good. That's what has happened there.

Paul is a Hermit said...

How rude of me. Congratulations, Merely Me, on being named Community Leader for both The Depression and The MS sites at Health Central!
Good Luck, though with your talent, I can't see you needing luck at all.

awb said...

Archie comics are for girls! Your friend Jughead.

Andy Alt said...

Discussing superheroes and comic books is a bit like discussing politics. Half the time people people will agree and the other half are crazy.

I'm 35 and read the comic books when I was 12-14 years old. The characters were very human, not cartoonish. I didn't realize until later that most people who read the same comic books as I were adults, but I was usually a bit "advanced" for my age.

The themes often dealt with -- among other issues -- war and peace, prejudice, racial tension, the cold war, relationships. Though the relationship were far different from real ones. Such as, what Cyclops (Scott Summers) should do when he's married a woman (Madeline Pryor) who resembles his dead wife (Jean Grey, aka Marvel Girl), who was killed many years ago, but now she's come back because it wasn't really her that died, but a near-omnipotent alien (Phoenix) that cloned itself to look like her, while his real wife (Jean Grey) was safely buried in a Cocoon off the Atlantic Coast near La Guardia airport.

And I've seen the movies too -- very disappointing. In Iron Man, I never figured out Stark was able to build his suit with the heavy surveillance he was under at the time while in captivity. And how the fellow snuck up on Stark in his own home. I kind of picture a guy like Tony Stark as having a top-of-the-line security system, to prevent people from sneaking up on him when he's sitting on his couch at home.

And in second Hulk movie, when he transformed into the Hulk while on the Operating/Experimentation table, because of the Hulk's massive weight, it just crushed under his weight. And yet the Hulk was able to bound from rooftop to rooftop without doing any damage. Not only do you have the weight, but the force of impact.

Oh, not that the comic books are any more believable, but at least they made attempts at being consistent.

I couldn't think of any other superheroes off the top of my head who didn't have superpowers, except for Captain America. He mostly had his shield for a weapon. His strength wasn't superhuman, however, but it was supposedly the max a human could possess, able to press 800 pounds. He got his strength from a scientist working on a "super-soldier" syrum during World War II, then the scientist was killed before the serum could be given to more American's to help fight in the War. Before the serum, Captain America was classified as 4F and very scrawny. As for his fighting skills, he got them the old-fashioned way. The shield was made of adamantium, the same as Wolverine's claws, but the accident that made it couldn't be duplicated.

It was a different scientist (Guardian from Alpha Flight) who laced Wolverine's bones with adamantium. Oh, there's another superhero with no powers just a suit. Guardian. Mac.. something, I forget his name.

The comic books I mostly read were X-men, Iron Man, Avengers, Fantastic Four, Hulk, Daredevil, Alpha Flight, Spiderman. Those were published by Marvel Comics. I never got into the DC universe much. Now that I think about it, I never found much depth when I read them, the characters were more cartoonish. Read a few Superman, only one Batman. I did enjoy Tales of the Teen Titans (DC) for a short time before the series was canceled. Obviously since I only read a few DC comics I'm not a good one to make a comparison or informed analysis of comics from the DC universe.

I enjoyed your post, and I enjoyed reminiscing with my comment here. As you pointed out, there's some good contrast to Tony Stark, aka Iron Man. Very arrogant, but forced into humility by his heart problems, and when he wears the suit, very powerful. I don't recall that in the comic book he revealed his identity so quickly. At one point, he was a member of the Avengers, and for a time the Avengers had a liaison in the US Government who would work directly with the Avengers as needed.

The vocabulary used in comic books were not typical to a 12-14 year old, and so I learned quite a few words. I of course had to employ a dictionary at times. In Spelling, at school, I was often near or at the top of the class.

I have noticed in the past that many people have misconceptions about comic books, and this is not to take a shot at your statements. It's just something I noticed before.

Tery Lynne said...

Oh, admit it! Robert Downey Jr. and Christian Bale has turned you super hero crazed! Dark and handsome is my cup of tea! LOL!!!

Jen said...

Hey Merely---

I'm hoping to see Watchmen (I think but am not sure if Robert Downey Jr is also in this?...) Wolverine is also peaking my interest.

Good job with the communities. You do have a gift for gathering folks to talk.

Jen

darkfoam said...

my favorite superhero as a child?
pippi longstocking ..
no doubt about it ..
and i read exactly all the comic books you read as a young girl .. lol ..

my favorite superhero now? hmmmmm ..
maybe elastigirl from the incredibles ..
:)

Anonymous said...

My favorite super hero? Hard to decide. I've always had a soft spot for Aquaman, even though he gets no respect. I just liked that he could breathe underwater and talk to fish--he's like his own ocean army!

And Iron Man or not, Downey is hot!

Charles Gramlich said...

I never read comics very much as a kid but I was kinda partial to the Fantastic Four. I really liked the Silver Surfer. Perhaps I identified with his internal angst.

Anonymous said...

I was the same way, never got into comics much as a kid bar the 'girly' sort. Then as I grew older I found all these darker, cool characters in graphic novels and fell in love. The list is long so I won't bore you with it but suffice to say I'm a DC/Vertigo fan of long-standing.

I <3 Batman. And oddly now the old Phantom series. Go figure. And Tank Girl kicks booty!

Did you ever catch The Dresden Files on TV? Reckon you'd probably like it if you didn't. The lead actor (Paul Blackthorne ) is rather Downey Jr-esque.

Ana said...

Hi Merely,
I saw you on some blogs I use to go and have already come here but I don't know why did not leave a comment.
I don't think of any heroes now.
Be at peace.
Ana

Ian Lidster said...

I am so glad Robt. Downey got his act together because he is immensely talented.

Now, beautiful friend, there is an award for you over at my blog.

Travis Cody said...

I didn't know anything about Iron Man when I saw the film. I definitely enjoyed it and that was mostly due to Mr Downey.

And while I'm extremely afraid of spiders, my favorite super hero is Spider Man.

Diane said...

I LOVED the Iron Man movie as well. My hubby has over 1000 comics from his days growing up - he bought 1 like 3 weeks ago so he's not done growing up yet. I digress, he has brought me around to appreciate superhero's. So much so that I see all movies with him - next week - Watchmen. He is all excited.

Growing up my favorite superhero was Wonderwoman. I used to swing around my backyard holding up my wrists to deflect bullets with my golden bracelets like she did. hehe

boneman said...

Thought I left a comment here...so, evidently I left before clicking on 'publish'....
That happens a lot more than I'de like to admit to.
And, of course, since I'm getting older, now, I forget to admit to it, anyway.
HA!
I am of the mind that Spiderman is cool.
I started reading his comix (Marvel) way back when Captain America was still going strong.
Batman was great, what having no specific (or satlantic, either) 'super'powers, but rather just his own self.

I do kind of lean towards the idea that we all have some kind of 'superpower' but that some of us don't have enough belief in ourselves to utilize that gift.

G. B. Miller said...

I don't think I had any superheroes as a kid, and I don't think I watched any of the recent movies feature superheroes (save for Spiderman 1).

However, as an adult (and keeping with my flaky nature), I lean towards the seriously fake superheroes that one finds on children's cartoons.

So my favorite superhero is from the Ren & Stimpy cartoon show: Powedered Toast Man (voiced by Gary Owens).

whimsical brainpan said...

I think Downey did an excellent job in Iron Man.

My favorite superhero is Batman.

Allan said...

When I was a kid (early 70'S) I read an Iron Man comic where Tony Stark went to a (not) Vietnamese warzone to see a piece of artillery tested...the cannon accidently killed an entire village of civilians. Stark was a bit freaked.
Iron Man used his powers to create a burial mound for the victims. He carved a gigantic "WHY?" into the ground as an epitaph. It was pretty heady stuff for a comic back then.

Memory lane...

Redroach said...

BATMAN, there is only one true hero.
Ironman is okay, but Batman is just plain cool.

Sorry, hit a soft spot there. I am a Batman fan

TV

laughingwolf said...

hey d, i have no super hero as such... but yoda always liked i have ;) lol

following muscle surgery to both eyes friday, it'll be a while til i'm back on the blogger track, sorry :(

Helene said...

Ironman has never looked so good! I havent seen the movie, but I look forward to watching it! lol

I will have a look at your other site. I struggled with depression for about 2 full years after my mom and brother died. It was quite an experience. While I would never wish it on anyone, it certainly gave me a broader perspective on mental illness. Its something that is very difficult to understand unless you have been there! Lexapro and time got me to the other side.

Herrad said...

As a child I too liked Pippi Longstocking.

Love,

Herrad

Miss Chris said...

I was never into superheroes but as a kid I loved the Bionic Woman show.

Richie said...

Check out Scotland's no1 superhero.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKDehPl8BV4